{"id":1024,"date":"2008-08-08T10:31:31","date_gmt":"2008-08-08T15:31:31","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/askastudent.utoronto.ca\/?p=1024"},"modified":"2016-06-17T12:13:12","modified_gmt":"2016-06-17T16:13:12","slug":"dont-forget-to-chew","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/askastudent.utoronto.ca\/?p=1024","title":{"rendered":"Don’t forget to chew."},"content":{"rendered":"

My boyfriend and I have been together for about 2 years, we hold hands, hugs and lots of kisses, but never cross the line.? I am still a virgin, and I really, really think we should have sex only after marriage. My boyfriend tasted the forbidden fruit long time ago, and I know he really really wants me, but I just can’t, even I wanted to. I am still in my second years, so I? still in school for 2-3 years (which mean I will not marry him for 2-3 years, which mean he will have to bear 2-3 years with no sex.)<\/em>

I want sex, I am horny, but I can’t give up myself and taste the forbidden fruit. I really really wanted to save myself for that special person (my boyfriend) for that special day.<\/em>
\nHelp me!!!!!!!!!!! I don’t know what to do anymore.<\/em>
\n<\/em>

Good morning asker,<\/p>\n

cross the line<\/em>? ?????? ??????????? …uh… are you in a race?<\/p>\n

the forbidden fruit<\/em>? ??????????? ??????????? …passion fruit? dragon fruit? …must be rhubarb.<\/p>\n

that special day<\/em>? ???????????????? …well… priority enrolment controls dropped today…?<\/p>\n

I’m sorry Desperado, Askastudent isn’t following your innuendoes.<\/p>\n

I’m gonna go out on a limb and assume that you are talking about making love<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Assumption #2: you are a girl (cause you wreak of too much theism to be another boy).<\/p>\n

Assumption #3: you’re 19-20 years old.<\/p>\n

Assumption #4: you must have a great personality<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Assumption #5: your bf thinks you are a @&$% tease.<\/p>\n

The first thing you need to ask yourself is WHY you can’t cross that proverbial line. Is it cultural, religious, parental? Askastudent is a liberal sole who thinks years of undue sexual censorship has created a culture of fear which pervades the bedroom (and the couch, car, laundry room, crawlspace, etc.). You are an adult in the 21st<\/sup> century. You have permission to make adult decisions and conduct adult behaviours.<\/p>\n

Option 1: The Wait<\/a><\/p>\n

\u00a0I’ve been to enough Canadian weddings<\/a> to know that by the end of that special day<\/em>, the groom will have ingested enough CC & G’s to be as suave as a manatee in the sack. If you really, really<\/em> wanna wait that long, bump back your line<\/em> to the following afternoon. (This time delay is negligible in the light of the slow torture that your poor bf is currently enduring). You’ll thank me later.<\/p>\n

Option 2: The Un-Wait<\/p>\n

I’ve been to enough Canadian weddings to know that contraception is under utilized. Use a latex condom (sans spermicide) with water-based lube in combination with one\/some of these<\/a>: the pill, IUDs, diaphragms, depo provera, looking like this<\/a>, etc. Discuss your sexual histories, desires, and limits, go to a comfortable place, take your time, and go at it<\/a>. Now by “it” I mean incrementally work your way to sex. After holding hands, hugs and kisses, there are at least a couple of steps before coitus<\/a>. If you take your time (sniff, peel, nibble, slice the fruit) it will taste considerably better in the end.<\/p>\n

Hmmm… is this the kinda of text that is interspersed between the photos in a Playboy?<\/p>\n

Now I feel dirty.<\/p>\n

Ps. If you are still reading this, you haven’t taken the hint… GO HAVE SEX NOW!<\/p>\n

Pps. Have fun.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

My boyfriend and I have been together for about 2 years, we hold hands, hugs and lots of kisses, but never cross the line.? I am still a virgin, and I really, really think we should have sex only after marriage. My boyfriend tasted the forbidden fruit long time ago, and I know he really really wants me, but I just can’t, even I wanted to. I am still in my second years, so I? still in school for 2-3 years (which mean I will not marry him for 2-3 years, which mean he will have to bear 2-3 years with no sex.)I want sex, I am horny, but I can’t give up myself and taste the forbidden fruit. I really really wanted to save myself for that special person (my boyfriend) for that special day. Help me!!!!!!!!!!! I don’t know what to do anymore.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":4,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"_uf_show_specific_survey":0,"_uf_disable_surveys":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[78,97,23],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1024","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-hard-marks","category-health","category-sex"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/askastudent.utoronto.ca\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1024","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/askastudent.utoronto.ca\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/askastudent.utoronto.ca\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/askastudent.utoronto.ca\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/4"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/askastudent.utoronto.ca\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1024"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/askastudent.utoronto.ca\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1024\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/askastudent.utoronto.ca\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1024"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/askastudent.utoronto.ca\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1024"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/askastudent.utoronto.ca\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1024"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}