{"id":253,"date":"2001-06-24T11:54:31","date_gmt":"2001-06-24T15:54:31","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/askastudent.utoronto.ca\/?p=253"},"modified":"2001-06-24T11:54:31","modified_gmt":"2001-06-24T15:54:31","slug":"clinton-too-once-worked-with-a-girl-who-sucked","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/askastudent.utoronto.ca\/?p=253","title":{"rendered":"clinton too once worked with a girl who sucked"},"content":{"rendered":"<p> I&#8217;m not sure if this is appropriate for your web site but I am having difficulties with a girl from work. I hate this job. She makes it unbarable and I no longer want to be there, but I need the money for school. What should I do? Should I quit? Where else could I find a job?<br \/>\n<!--more--><br \/>\nLazarus &#038; Folkman did proposed a stress-coping theory, which i believe applies to your dilemma. they said you could respond either emotionally or situationally.<br \/>\nessentially, you need to either approach her and tell her that she&#8217;s bothering you, quit (you can find work through the UofT career centre), or simply adjust emotionally, and take time to realize her good points.<br \/>\nbut since it seems she doesn&#8217;t have any (why else would you be bitching), you should simply suck it up and be a grown up about it. screw her! you just keep doing what you&#8217;re doing and concern yourself not with the annoyances associated with your work environment.<br \/>\ntake from this what you want&#8230;but be sure to eat whatever you take.<br \/>\ncheers,<br \/>\naskastudent<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I&#8217;m not sure if this is appropriate for your web site but I am having difficulties with a girl from work. I hate this job. She makes it unbarable and I no longer want to be there, but I need the money for school. What should I do? Should I quit? Where else could I find a job?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":4,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"_uf_show_specific_survey":0,"_uf_disable_surveys":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[91,54,63],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-253","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-awkwardness","category-jobs","category-psychology"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/askastudent.utoronto.ca\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/253","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/askastudent.utoronto.ca\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/askastudent.utoronto.ca\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/askastudent.utoronto.ca\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/4"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/askastudent.utoronto.ca\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=253"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/askastudent.utoronto.ca\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/253\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/askastudent.utoronto.ca\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=253"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/askastudent.utoronto.ca\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=253"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/askastudent.utoronto.ca\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=253"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}