{"id":4026,"date":"2012-09-17T11:50:21","date_gmt":"2012-09-17T16:50:21","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/askastudent.utoronto.ca\/?p=4026"},"modified":"2016-06-24T11:26:45","modified_gmt":"2016-06-24T15:26:45","slug":"frosh-friends","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/askastudent.utoronto.ca\/?p=4026","title":{"rendered":"frosh = friends?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Hi,<\/p>\n<p>I will be unable to attend Frosh Week because I&#8217;ll be arriving campus 3 days after it starts, but I am kind a worried because almost all the sources that I have read indicates that this is an important &#8220;mile-stone&#8221; that first-years need to take, and that it was a good way to meet friends, socialize, get used to the campus etc&#8230; I&#8217;m also dorming, so I have this little irrelevant fear that I won&#8217;t get along with my roomates (in Innis) because they&#8217;ll know each other better before I arrive, and I&#8217;ll sort of be the &#8220;outcast&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p>I was just wondering, am I really missing much? I&#8217;m sure there will be other opportunities to find friends, socialize, and attend orientation that may help me as a first year? I just don&#8217;t want to be left out, or feeling like I&#8217;m missing something that so many people are hyping over.<\/p>\n<p>Cheers,<br \/>\nCatherine<\/p>\n<div>\n<p>\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p>Hey Catherine!<\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t worry! <span style=\"color: #ffffff;\"><a style=\"color: #ffffff;\" href=\"http:\/\/www.innislife.utoronto.ca\/new-students\/orientation\" target=\"_blank\">Frosh week<\/a><\/span> is pretty fun, sure, but it is by no means the dealbreaker when it comes to social life at U of T.<\/p>\n<p>To make you feel better, here&#8217;s what I didn&#8217;t like about frosh week: they pretend to feed you, but actually all you get is two burgers a day, you really don&#8217;t sleep ever at all, you can&#8217;t officially drink, but everyone seems to be acting funny, and you&#8217;re totally wiped out when classes start. Still feel like you missed out? Well, maybe so, but there&#8217;s still no reason to worry.<\/p>\n<p>Living in res also gives you a leg up on meeting people, especially people involved in Innis student life&#8211; which you&#8217;ve probably realized by now! Several of my roommates at Innis didn&#8217;t do Frosh, so I made sure to bring them along to meet others, and, for better or for worse, we ended up being one of the busiest suites on the block! I&#8217;m sure your roomies will be just as down to hang. House events and residence programming simulate the same sort of get-to-know-yous that frosh does, anyhow, so you&#8217;ve got a second chance there.<\/p>\n<p>Honestly, Catherine, I made my best first-year friends in my classes- for one thing, you already know you have similar interests as those people, as opposed to a fairly arbitrary commonality such as your year and your college. And second of all, it&#8217;s simply more natural to chat after class about your cute prof than it is to get a stranger to guess the celebrity name taped to their forehead at 9am on a Saturday (true story, it was Rachel McAdams for me, and I didn&#8217;t even know who that was!). Getting involved in campus activities, getting a part-time job, and just being friendly and outgoing go pretty darn far.<\/p>\n<p>One last bit, and this is mostly for future froshies- if you missed Innis frosh, I hope you opted-out of the $100 fee in time! A few years ago, the Innis College Student Society, who run Frosh, included a somewhat greedy referendum in the yearly elections, which changed Frosh fees from opt-in (you pay when you sign up) to opt-out (you&#8217;re automatically charged on ROSI, and have to contact them a month before frosh to get your money back if you aren&#8217;t going). If you ask me, the kind of student who doesn&#8217;t go to Frosh is often the kind who wouldn&#8217;t know to vote in student elections, so thats why the motion passed overwhelmingly&#8211; and now a lot of first-years are paying for something they don?t even get! Bummer spice!<\/p>\n<p>Welcome to U of T!<\/p>\n<p>aska<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Hi, I will be unable to attend Frosh Week because I&#8217;ll be arriving campus 3 days after it starts, but I am kind a worried because almost all the sources that I have read indicates that this is an important &#8220;mile-stone&#8221; that first-years need to take, and that it was a good way to meet friends, socialize, get used to the campus etc&#8230; I&#8217;m also dorming, so I have this little irrelevant fear that I won&#8217;t get along with my roomates (in Innis) because they&#8217;ll know each other better before I arrive, and I&#8217;ll sort of be the &#8220;outcast&#8221;. I was just wondering, am I really missing much? I&#8217;m sure there will be other opportunities to find friends, socialize, and attend orientation that may help me as a first year? I just don&#8217;t want to be left out, or feeling like I&#8217;m missing something that so many people are hyping over. Cheers, Catherine \u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014 Hey Catherine! Don&#8217;t worry! Frosh week is pretty fun, sure, but it is by no means the dealbreaker when it comes to social life at U of T. To make you feel better, here&#8217;s what I didn&#8217;t like about frosh week: they pretend to feed you, but actually all you get is two burgers a day, you really don&#8217;t sleep ever at all, you can&#8217;t officially drink, but everyone seems to be acting funny, and you&#8217;re totally wiped out when classes start. Still feel like you missed out? Well, maybe so, but there&#8217;s still no reason to worry. Living in res also gives you a leg up on meeting people, especially people involved in Innis student life&#8211; which you&#8217;ve probably realized by now! Several of my roommates at Innis didn&#8217;t do Frosh, so I made sure to bring them along to meet others, and, for better or for worse, we ended up being one of the busiest suites on the block! I&#8217;m sure your roomies will be just as down to hang. House events and residence programming simulate the same sort of get-to-know-yous that frosh does, anyhow, so you&#8217;ve got a second chance there. Honestly, Catherine, I made my best first-year friends in my classes- for one thing, you already know you have similar interests as those people, as opposed to a fairly arbitrary commonality such as your year and your college. And second of all, it&#8217;s simply more natural to chat after class about your cute prof than it is to get a stranger to guess the celebrity name taped to their forehead at 9am on a Saturday (true story, it was Rachel McAdams for me, and I didn&#8217;t even know who that was!). Getting involved in campus activities, getting a part-time job, and just being friendly and outgoing go pretty darn far. One last bit, and this is mostly for future froshies- if you missed Innis frosh, I hope you opted-out of the $100 fee in time! A few years ago, the Innis College Student Society, who run Frosh, included a somewhat greedy referendum in the yearly elections, which changed Frosh fees from opt-in (you pay when you sign up) to opt-out (you&#8217;re automatically charged on ROSI, and have to contact them a month before frosh to get your money back if you aren&#8217;t going). If you ask me, the kind of student who doesn&#8217;t go to Frosh is often the kind who wouldn&#8217;t know to vote in student elections, so thats why the motion passed overwhelmingly&#8211; and now a lot of first-years are paying for something they don?t even get! Bummer spice! Welcome to U of T! aska<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":4,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"_uf_show_specific_survey":0,"_uf_disable_surveys":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[91,118,89,68,13,32],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-4026","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-awkwardness","category-first-year","category-friends","category-frosh","category-innis","category-residence"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/askastudent.utoronto.ca\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4026","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/askastudent.utoronto.ca\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/askastudent.utoronto.ca\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/askastudent.utoronto.ca\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/4"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/askastudent.utoronto.ca\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=4026"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/askastudent.utoronto.ca\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4026\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/askastudent.utoronto.ca\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=4026"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/askastudent.utoronto.ca\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=4026"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/askastudent.utoronto.ca\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=4026"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}