{"id":441,"date":"2007-02-02T14:21:03","date_gmt":"2007-02-02T18:21:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/askastudent.utoronto.ca\/?p=441"},"modified":"2007-02-02T14:21:03","modified_gmt":"2007-02-02T18:21:03","slug":"askastudentabout-love-2nd-annual-flavor-flav-edition","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/askastudent.utoronto.ca\/?p=441","title":{"rendered":"askastudent&#8230;.about love? 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Am I correct?<br \/>\nSorry for the many non-school related questions I have been sending lately, but I have no school concerns right now, and the way you&#8217;re making yourself out to be some mysterious genderless being is really working, and I&#8217;m very intrigued by you.<br \/>\n <!--more--><br \/>\nfor the record, askastudent is a totally mysteriously asexual being who is also really good at being awesome, much like well-known asexuals like Morrissey and (apparently) Emily Bronte. i can never reveal my true identity, or i will be forced to undergo a superman-like deterioration process that forces me to lose all superhero powers in order to save the human race. anyways, thanks for the curiosity!<br \/>\ncheers, askastudent<br \/>\n*not that you can&#8217;t me all the time since these questions are 67% more fun than stuff about subject PoSTS<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>it&#8217;s that time of the year again dear readers. since VD &#8211; day is vastly approaching, feel free to send in your queries, questions, deepest desires and magnificent ponderings about that other l-word, Love, and i&#8217;ll try to answer them as best i can&#8230;while throwing in a couple of jokes to boot. it&#8217;s time to ask a student&#8230;.about love?* our first question (not really love related) comes from an anonymous reader who asks: For some reason, it never occurred to me to even wonder what gender you are (assuming aska is one person which I&#8217;m pretty sure is the case), but today after I read your response &#8220;girls (i think) like guys who are considerate&#8221; to one of the questions, I suddenly realized that you do have a gender and it may be male. 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