{"id":5719,"date":"2013-11-01T13:29:53","date_gmt":"2013-11-01T18:29:53","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/askastudent.utoronto.ca\/?p=5719"},"modified":"2016-07-06T15:14:05","modified_gmt":"2016-07-06T19:14:05","slug":"panicking-about-marks-and-other-fun-stuff-about-uoft1one-part-two","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/askastudent.utoronto.ca\/?p=5719","title":{"rendered":"Panicking about marks and other fun stuff about UofT!!1!one!!: Part Two"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Hi,<br \/>\nI got my BCH210 mark back and I got a 62&#8230;it&#8217;s worth 35% of my mark. I&#8217;m freaking out and about to have a mental breakdown, I&#8217;m even crying as I write this. Should I drop it? It&#8217;s part of my subject post. Plus my mom is gonna be so pissed if I drop it&#8230;AHH and I might drop HMB265 too&#8230;I don&#8217;t know what to do, please please please help.<\/p>\n<div>\n<p>\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014<\/p>\n<p>hey there,<\/p>\n<p>Alright, lemme tell you a <a href=\"http:\/\/media.tumblr.com\/tumblr_m6imitu5Qg1qj2doh.gif\" target=\"_blank\">story<\/a>. I was in my first year, minding my own business in first semester. Everything was going swimmingly. Then, the first midterm test came around for Chemistry &#8211; bam. 47%. I&#8217;d failed. I&#8217;d <a href=\"http:\/\/media.tumblr.com\/ae02bacbe1c63fa553015af830878938\/tumblr_inline_mrge807moP1qz4rgp.gif\" target=\"_blank\">FAILED<\/a> a test. I hadn&#8217;t failed a test since grade 4 in French conjugation when I got 0\/10 and the teacher pulled me aside to ask me if I was okay. I didn&#8217;t know what to do. I panicked. I cried &#8211; a lot.<\/p>\n<p>That panicking stopped when I took a second to assess my options. These are the ones I came up with: a) drop out of school and become a <a href=\"http:\/\/media.tumblr.com\/tumblr_m5a6r95qmS1rom0i2.gif\" target=\"_blank\">scary hermit<\/a> in the woods of Northern Ontario b) switch programs or c) do better.<\/p>\n<p>The way it shook out is that I picked b) and c). I did my best to pass the course and then I switched to a program that was better suited for me. And now I couldn&#8217;t care less about that midterm. Actually, I&#8217;m glad it happened to me, because now there&#8217;s a chance it might be of some use to you.<\/p>\n<p>You can still very easily pass that class &#8211; you&#8217;ve only forfeited 13.3% of your final mark, giving you plenty of opportunity to make it up. Plus, in my experience, profs who give super hard midterms tend to give easier final exams.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;d say it&#8217;s probably too late in the semester to drop the course. What I <em>would<\/em> do is buckle down, finish BCH210 and HMB265 and do as well as you possibly can. Then over the Christmas break, when you&#8217;re a bit <a href=\"http:\/\/media.tumblr.com\/tumblr_lta7ceF4MM1qafrh6.gif\" target=\"_blank\">more relaxed<\/a> and have time to think about this properly, make a decision about whether you want to stick to the courses you&#8217;ve got next semester, maybe drop some extra-curricular commitments you&#8217;ve got going on, or make whatever other changes you need to to make next semester a little easier.<\/p>\n<p>Just trust me that this isn&#8217;t worth crying over, and also, that you don&#8217;t owe anyone anything; not your mom or the school or anyone. You owe yourself a <a href=\"http:\/\/25.media.tumblr.com\/a024a6fd3523f1cb5828452e53a8676f\/tumblr_mf7q22G18J1rea34io1_r1_500.gif\" target=\"_blank\">happy<\/a> university experience, and it&#8217;s up to you to figure out how to get that.<\/p>\n<p>Good luck,<\/p>\n<p>aska<\/p>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Hi, I got my BCH210 mark back and I got a 62&#8230;it&#8217;s worth 35% of my mark. I&#8217;m freaking out and about to have a mental breakdown, I&#8217;m even crying as I write this. Should I drop it? It&#8217;s part of my subject post. Plus my mom is gonna be so pissed if I drop it&#8230;AHH and I might drop HMB265 too&#8230;I don&#8217;t know what to do, please please please help. \u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014 hey there, Alright, lemme tell you a story. I was in my first year, minding my own business in first semester. Everything was going swimmingly. Then, the first midterm test came around for Chemistry &#8211; bam. 47%. I&#8217;d failed. I&#8217;d FAILED a test. I hadn&#8217;t failed a test since grade 4 in French conjugation when I got 0\/10 and the teacher pulled me aside to ask me if I was okay. I didn&#8217;t know what to do. I panicked. I cried &#8211; a lot. That panicking stopped when I took a second to assess my options. These are the ones I came up with: a) drop out of school and become a scary hermit in the woods of Northern Ontario b) switch programs or c) do better. The way it shook out is that I picked b) and c). I did my best to pass the course and then I switched to a program that was better suited for me. And now I couldn&#8217;t care less about that midterm. Actually, I&#8217;m glad it happened to me, because now there&#8217;s a chance it might be of some use to you. You can still very easily pass that class &#8211; you&#8217;ve only forfeited 13.3% of your final mark, giving you plenty of opportunity to make it up. Plus, in my experience, profs who give super hard midterms tend to give easier final exams. I&#8217;d say it&#8217;s probably too late in the semester to drop the course. What I would do is buckle down, finish BCH210 and HMB265 and do as well as you possibly can. Then over the Christmas break, when you&#8217;re a bit more relaxed and have time to think about this properly, make a decision about whether you want to stick to the courses you&#8217;ve got next semester, maybe drop some extra-curricular commitments you&#8217;ve got going on, or make whatever other changes you need to to make next semester a little easier. Just trust me that this isn&#8217;t worth crying over, and also, that you don&#8217;t owe anyone anything; not your mom or the school or anyone. You owe yourself a happy university experience, and it&#8217;s up to you to figure out how to get that. Good luck, aska<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":4,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"_uf_show_specific_survey":0,"_uf_disable_surveys":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[229],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-5719","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-stress"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/askastudent.utoronto.ca\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5719","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/askastudent.utoronto.ca\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/askastudent.utoronto.ca\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/askastudent.utoronto.ca\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/4"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/askastudent.utoronto.ca\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=5719"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/askastudent.utoronto.ca\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5719\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/askastudent.utoronto.ca\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=5719"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/askastudent.utoronto.ca\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=5719"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/askastudent.utoronto.ca\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=5719"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}