Is there any way to complain about my prof without actually talking to her?
this is an age-old question, the answer to which depends on the specifics of the situation. if you are having problems following the lectures for example, you should contact you college registrar/academic counsellor. there is also a university counselling and learning skills centre which could help you in this department.
if the problem is more serious, like harrassment or something, you could try the university ombudsman office.
if you can be more specific about the problem, then we will be able to help you better…