Guys hate me, all of them… I don’t know what to do. I’m 23 and no guy has ever shown ANY interest in me. Never, ever. Not to mention dates and so on… I’m believed to be quite attractive, so why I can’t find anyone? What to do???? I don’t want to be lonely and alone all my life… PS: Don’t you dare tell me to try girls!!!
maybe you should try girls. it seems to have worked for me. of course, i’m a guy so that could be it. but you know… i’ve always felt like a lesbian trapped in a man’s body.
damn kid, i don’t really know. maybe the right guy just hasn’t come along. we all have a our own subconscious expressions that may present themselves inadvertently in our daily dealings with the opposite sex. a good example is crossing your arms. loads of people don’t realize how standoffish it makes people. things like that. maybe you’ve got something like that going on.
maybe you’re looking in the wrong places. have you been looking for like minded males in appropriate places? i had a friend once who dressed like a total slut, boobs always hanging out of her shirt, spent her time in bars grinding every guy who chose to give her attention, and couldn’t figure out why she never met a nice guy. what a dumb ass. i swear she’s one of the dumbest girls i ever knew. needless to say, we don’t talk much anymore. not saying you’re like that, but maybe a different, hopefully less slutty, version.
and maybe you’re too attractive. to be honest, guys can feel easily intimidated by a girl that they figure might be out of their league. guys have fairly frail egos, so once they get turned down by other girls, it probably inclines them less to approach another girl, especially one who’s ‘believed to be quite attractive’
there’s always the other possibilities that you’ve been cursed by a voodoo witch, you are actually very ugly, or you seem to spend a lot of time scratching your ass, but i’m sure it’s none of these. you aren’t holding out for someone specific (a friend, friend’s boyfriend, high school sweet heart to come around) are you? that might be a factor.
write back, if you have other questions, or want to expand upon anything.
cheers,
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