Here’s a real doozy for you: I’m a happily married woman. Yet the other night at a cocktail party, a female acquaintance of mine made a pass at me! I didn’t know how to respond, so I acted embarrassed and left the room quickly. We haven’t talked since, but I know I am going to see her at a picnic next month. I don’t want it to be horribly awkward. What should I do?
is it just me or does this sound like the begining of a penthouse forum letter. hell she mights as well have been three cut plumbers there to fix your ‘pipes’.
if this is serious, simply tell her you aren’t interested. that’s it. honestly, at least in this situation, is most definitely the right approach. especially given that she’s a lesbian (or at least lady curious) because women of that type can’t take your rejection as a personal affront. you just don’t swing that way. there’s nothing wrong with asserting your heterosexuality every now ad then.
or bring the hubby along to the picnic. maybe she’ll get the message without you needing to say anything.
or course, what the hell do i know? i’m not a woman or a lesbian. too bad though!
cheers,
askastudent