the secret to love:get a bit more involved on campus and go dancing. and dress cool.

You know what, I really want to have a boyfriend. I mean not someone just to hang out with and go to bed, but to love and care for, someone who’d love and care for me too.
The question is, how to make that happen?
There have been guys I liked, even loved, but it all has been one-sided. And there wernen’t ones who’d like me and I wouldn’t like – I mean no guy has shown interest in me.
See, I won’t go out with a guy I don’t care about, I somehow can’t. Some with holding hands, kissing. For me, it’s something special, so I want to be sure. But even if I did, nobody has asked me out or anything. Nobody knows that I need to be involved in order to start something (at least like the guy), so that’s not the reason. I don’t know. I really don’t want to be alone anymore. I feel lonely, unwanted and unloved.

generally i would make fun of you for being whiny and annoying, except that i really feel the same way lately. i don’t what it is. i was really interested in this girl but i was told by a mutual friend that she was hooking up with some other guy and i really don’t want to screw with that. i’ve found people that i could hang out with, but not anybody to love. it seems that i’m in this cyclic world where the same shit keeps happening to me.
i too wish that i could find the right person, hell even somebody with some potential would be good enough. hopefully something will show up but i’m too busy to actually start looking for it. and i guess i really don’t want to have to force something into existence. it would be nice if a relationship just kinda happened.
my only advice is to let the world take its course. don’t create stuff from nothing, and that patience is always the better choice. you should avoid settling like an envelop filled with mysterious white powder. it’s never in anyone’s best interest.
why are you alone? is it because of happenstance, lack of options, or because you’re putting out the wrong signals? i’m sorry you feel alone but take comfort in knowing that you’re not alone. everybody feels this way sometimes. or at least i do.
iah crap. now i’m feeling lonely and unloved. thanks for ruining my day too.
hang in there. cool things happen out of nowhere. let me know how everything ends up.
cheers,
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