• askastudent love/hate,  sex/romance

    askastudent….about love? (2nd annual Flavor Flav edition)

    it’s that time of the year again dear readers. since VD – day is vastly approaching, feel free to send in your queries, questions, deepest desires and magnificent ponderings about that other l-word, Love, and i’ll try to answer them as best i can…while throwing in a couple of jokes to boot.
    it’s time to ask a student….about love?*
    our first question (not really love related) comes from an anonymous reader who asks:
    For some reason, it never occurred to me to even wonder what gender you are (assuming aska is one person which I’m pretty sure is the case), but today after I read your response “girls (i think) like guys who are considerate” to one of the questions, I suddenly realized that you do have a gender and it may be male. Am I correct?
    Sorry for the many non-school related questions I have been sending lately, but I have no school concerns right now, and the way you’re making yourself out to be some mysterious genderless being is really working, and I’m very intrigued by you.

  • medicine,  sex/romance

    homeopathic ho’s

    Hey aska,
    I was wondering, are any naturopathic or alternative medical treatments covered or subsidized by the Health Plan?
    So, do i get any benefits on birth control? If so, do you now what brand the health place has available for purchase? thanks.

  • alcohol,  commerce,  partying,  sex/romance,  st. mike's

    an underage undergraduate hippie art commerce student with a taste for catholic schoolgirls and liquor? what does not belong here?

    Hi askastudent…
    Been cruising your website for the past half hour and couple questions popped up:
    1) Exactly how hard is UfT Commerce? I haven’t got my acceptance letter yet, but I can’t decide between art degree with a business major or just the hardcore business. Call me a hippie but I’m really not all that interested in money.
    2) Is St. Mike’s a college of Catholic girls gone wild, finally free from the iron grip of their parents? If so, unfortunately, I think it’s my destiny.
    3) Lastly (a stupid question but considering my background, see above) how should one get alcohol underage? Am I just going to have to continue sucking up to (not literally) 19 year olds for favours?
    Thanks a milllion…

  • sex/romance

    shyness and how to get a hug…

    Hi… I need a bit of serious help/advice…

    There is this guy I’ve been liking for a few months now. We never talk, but he looks at me sometimes, ya know… I realized I have a crush on him big time and I’m scared and desperate, don’t know what to do. I don’t know what his feelings are, but he knows about my crush. I’m too shy to start talking to him, especially now, I want to run away and hide… and I so much want a big hug from him. Any advice on how to get this going? Please…

  • sex/romance

    no one likes a goofy guy

    K. this is the problem..
    I am kinda a weird person.. just am too open and too weird. rite, i get along swell with like everyone.. liked by many, no one really hates me.. get along great with girls..
    but heres the problem.. get along too well sometimes, and girls dont take me seriously when i ask them out..
    hate that.. what can i do?
    they say that i am not the sort to go out with.. hmmm..
    well?
    *smiles*

  • sex/romance

    ways not to find love: debate them into saying yes

    Hey, it’s me!
    I didn’t kill myself and I love debating!!!
    That guy still won’t look at me, in fact he let me down terribly, but for me, these are two separate things. I mean I went to the club because I wanted to and it happened that he was there… I’d love to debate with him, so he finds out that I don’t suck that much. In fact, I don’t suck at all.

  • bad times,  sex/romance

    the secret to love:get a bit more involved on campus and go dancing. and dress cool.

    You know what, I really want to have a boyfriend. I mean not someone just to hang out with and go to bed, but to love and care for, someone who’d love and care for me too.
    The question is, how to make that happen?
    There have been guys I liked, even loved, but it all has been one-sided. And there wernen’t ones who’d like me and I wouldn’t like – I mean no guy has shown interest in me.
    See, I won’t go out with a guy I don’t care about, I somehow can’t. Some with holding hands, kissing. For me, it’s something special, so I want to be sure. But even if I did, nobody has asked me out or anything. Nobody knows that I need to be involved in order to start something (at least like the guy), so that’s not the reason. I don’t know. I really don’t want to be alone anymore. I feel lonely, unwanted and unloved.