• askastudent love/hate,  sex/romance

    askastudent says: be a good wingman

    hi askastudent, i’m writing in hopes that this will reach a friend who holds you in very high esteem. what advice would u give a girl who has a guaranteed hook-up with a guy she’s in to, but refuses/is terrified to ask their mutual friend to hook it up? any advice you have would be much appreciated, i’ve tried everything i can think of. thank ya!

  • profs,  sex/romance

    nailing your prof: good for points and nothing else

    Ok… So we have all heard the questions revolving around a student who has the hots for their T.A. But mine is a little more difficult. I want my prof. He is a (let me stress this) younger professor. I think he’s in his late 20’s or early 30’s and I want him… Bad. There are rules, I know, but what are they and what can I do to get around these rules so I can possibly seduce my sexy prof?

  • sex/romance

    how to hook up with a quiet, snobby punk rocker

    I had a question which none of my incompetent friends seem to be able to answer so I was hoping you could help me out. I like this guy in one of my classes, a lot… He’s this artsy-fartsy type, kinda punker rockerish, quiet yet brilliant. You know the type. I’m one of those preppy, put together girls that seems totally unapproachable. All my friends tell me he is ugly and that I’m too pretty for him, I think he is beautiful. Problem is how do I go for this guy. We have never said a word to each other and he seems snobby and I wonder if I would fit his standards. I’ve been told I’m very attractive but I just don’t have the confidence to talk to this guy. What do I do?

  • homosexuality,  sex/romance

    issues at the company picnic

    Here’s a real doozy for you: I’m a happily married woman. Yet the other night at a cocktail party, a female acquaintance of mine made a pass at me! I didn’t know how to respond, so I acted embarrassed and left the room quickly. We haven’t talked since, but I know I am going to see her at a picnic next month. I don’t want it to be horribly awkward. What should I do?

  • awkwardness,  courses,  homosexuality,  religion,  sex/romance

    does it make any difference that we’re talking about religion class?

    Theres this amazing guy in my Religion class. I think he is really amazing- aesthetically. I’ve talked to him and he is really approachable, really easy to talk to. I want to go for him, problem is a friend of mine thinks he might be gay. I know it’s a stereotype that good looking guys with great personalities are homosexual. I can’t ask him because I don’t know him well enough to do so, what do I do?

  • sex/romance,  TAs

    Tutorial ASSistant

    i want my TA, plain and simple. thing is, do you think its a good idea to ask him out now? he won’t be teaching us next semester so that student-teacher relationship is over. we talked a few times, he knows my name but no signals about whether he’s into me or not. if a good, professional TA was into his student, we he give hints as to whether he’s attracted to you or would he keep it to himself? I had my last class with him today so i won’t see him again and i’m sure he won’t be teaching me in the future. If i should ask him out, does e-mail sound ok? thanks

  • sex/romance

    virginity is a state of mind?

    is it normal to be 20 and still be a virgin? all my friends have done it or something close and it seems like i’m the only one on campus who hasn’t shagged anyone. thing is i don’t want to have sex yet (i have certain beliefs about this issue). i lie to everyone about my virginity and they believe me. they even come to me for advice. thing is, i’m beginning to date someone and i’m scared to tell him that i’m still a virgin and that i don’t want to sleep with him. i’m scared that he’ll tell and that he’ll leave me (that’s happened b4). are there any guys that are still virgins or who wouldn’t mind dating someone whose still a virgin? it’s not that i’m not attractive or have no personality. i’m beginning to think that maybe i should just have a one night stand and just get it over with. what do you think?